And in the case of children? Is it so easy to apply when choosing your wardrobe?
In Fortunitas Boutique Infantil we are convinced that this mediocre aura is the first of the principles that should guide the choice of each garment for each occasion, season, and even the child's mood. Following this principle, we propose
4 Tips to Dress the Prince of the House
#1. A child is neither a baby nor an adult: avoid both extremes by dressing him
As parents , we must not forget that when our children stop being babies and begin to prepare for the school season, we must educate them according to their status and evolution, avoiding extremes in dressing.That is why we must prevent both the excessively early stimulation of dressing the child as an adult, skipping stages, as the search for survival in the dress of a baby that has ceased to be, in an attempt not to grow before our eyes both attitudes must be avoided at all costs, because, in the first case, the child will not be comfortable enough with shirts or pants with which he cannot move with ease.
(What a shame those children dressed to match celebrities dads!)
While in the second, in addition to the difficulties to achieve sizes of this type of garments, this could be another element to prevent our little one from identifying himself in dressing with that child that is evolving.
Both situations would be as counterproductive as talking to them with academic speeches or, the other extreme (so disgusted by child psychology today ) of speaking to them imitating baby babble.
It is much better to have options, depending on the situation that arises: more classic garments, adapted to the children's world, such as those presented in our section of wholesale children's clothing, through both sober and modern sets at the same time, of shorts and shirt with comfortable necks and easy buttonings, which do not prevent them from playing and unfolding, reserving jeans and t-shirts with inscriptions for school, of marked tendency in this season.
#2. Inculcating and teaching the child to dress is part of his life
Until the child begins to go to school, in the same way that we teach children other routines, such as food, hygiene or the order of their toys, dressing is one more routine about what to do. educate, although little by little.The boys, like the girls, look for clothes in the shelter of comfort, the softness of a texture that is pleasant to the touch and, above all, the identification of themselves.
While it is true that it is not until the age of nine or ten when the child begins to experience his own style, from the autonomy of knowing and being able to choose and dress alone; To achieve this, you have to instill, from a very young age, routines to dress and undress, sometimes taking the imitation of the adult (his most immediate model) as a base, but always from the motivation of wearing comfortable clothes and according to his age.
The practice of this routine must be daily, progressive and at the right time.
At first, it will start with small contributions by the child, as taught to wear the clothes inside or prepare some clothes to try to wear them (alone or with help), culminating us the process, up zippers, buttoning and adjusting the garments.
#3. Give clothing options: it is a way to create autonomy in the child
Isn't it true that no parents who claim to be so leave the child absolutely free to watch the programs they want?On the contrary, they should be allowed to choose between options, but already filtered in advance, due to the age and evolution of the child; In the case of the child's clothing, we reach that middle ground (which we have referred to before), giving you several options of choice, so that you have the feeling that you choose, but making sure that, whatever your choice, always There will have been prior supervision on our part.
In this way, the child learns that he can participate in his own way of dressing, which implies an advance for his own self-esteem and identity and, ultimately, increases both autonomy and self-confidence, without the parents losing the control that they must also have in this aspect.
In this sense, at the time of making the purchase, you can make a preselection of several sets on which the child will be urged to choose, because of their preferred colors, textures, clothing or comfort.
In daily dress, depending on the occasion, several closed options will also be presented to the child on which the child can choose, depending on many elements, without being precisely the least important mood.
#4. Do not get carried away by Low Cost models
Especially in the case of boys, the trend of low cost fashion is more evident than in girls, because for these companies it is cheaper to copy the male models of adult garments than to hire designers to create original and creative models, especially indicated for children, even if they are inspired by certain adult garments, but of cutting, sewing and details more suitable for children.Imitating the way adults dress is not dangerous if it is an isolated event, such as a small tie or a more classic jacket for special occasions, but if it is about turning the child into an adult in small , we will have to run with all the risks that this entails, so it is totally avoidable to go to these types of brands, especially to prevent the visual identification of the child with the child he is, in addition to the weariness of being dressed in this way much of his life.
What a boredom ...! Don't you think?Let him also be a child in dress, without shortening childhood.
In short, everyone knows that, in general, children prefer to dress up, and sometimes even refuse to take off their costumes to go outside. It is very good for children to disguise themselves, but making them see that it is a game but that the reality is different, that they cannot go to school in disguise, except when it is required, so
YOU HAVE TO KNOW HOW TO DIFFER THE CHILD WHEN YOU HAVE TO DRESS AND WHEN TO DRESS, EVEN IF YOU ARE ADULT.
